FROM子句中指定的表别名不能用作SET column_name中的限定符。这是无效的：

update nfltx
set 
b.boxno = a.boxno,
b.message = a.message,
b.nameboxno = a.nameboxno,
b.namemsg = a.namemsg,
b.phoneboxno = a.phoneboxno,
b.phonemsg = a.phonemsg

FROM ofltx a JOIN nfltx b 
ON a.ls_fullnam = b.ls_fullnam

要使其正常工作，请卸下b。列名的别名。

update nfltx
set 
boxno = a.boxno,
message = a.message,
nameboxno = a.nameboxno,
namemsg = a.namemsg,
phoneboxno = a.phoneboxno,
phonemsg = a.phonemsg

FROM ofltx a JOIN nfltx b 
ON a.ls_fullnam = b.ls_fullnam

拉吉