您需要创建自己的net.Dialer，并返回，以net.Conn设置适当的读写期限。

该Conn会是这个样子：

// Conn wraps a net.Conn, and sets a deadline for every read
// and write operation.
type Conn struct {
    net.Conn
    ReadTimeout  time.Duration
    WriteTimeout time.Duration
}

func (c *Conn) Read(b []byte) (int, error) {
    err := c.Conn.SetReadDeadline(time.Now().Add(c.ReadTimeout))
    if err != nil {
        return 0, err
    }
    return c.Conn.Read(b)
}

func (c *Conn) Write(b []byte) (int, error) {
    err := c.Conn.SetWriteDeadline(time.Now().Add(c.WriteTimeout))
    if err != nil {
        return 0, err
    }
    return c.Conn.Write(b)
}